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Cake day: June 22nd, 2023

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  • Have you ever met any? They overlap with the white nationalist, trad wives, great replacement theory gotta “outbreed those pesky immigrants with any pigment to their skin”, homeschooling, full bore brainwashing characteristics. Those nutters aren’t dying out from lack of new recruits, they’ll hold on through reinforcement via even more children.

    Source: raised in 'em (not Pius, a different but similar faction) and while I left, every single peer I had, now fully grown women, have at least a half dozen kids each to make up for my one -1 to the count. One has 15 kids to date with enough years for at least a couple more; her mom had over a dozen too.

    Fun playing devil’s advocate now when I let familial obligations put me in contact with them. My recent favorite has been to get them going on how Catholic monarchy is what this country needs, as in the pope (obvs not Leo now) appoints the US king. Then I throw the curveball and ask what if the pope appoints a US queen?








  • My sister. She reads like no one else I’ve ever met. No joke, she can listen to an audiobook on 2x speed while reading a separate physical or ebook at the same time. Two books at once. Madness. Needless to say, she reads a lot and does a pretty good job finding good stuff. So I check in on what she’s liked in genres that overlap with my interest. Check 2 is if I can find a given book at my library.





  • Within the past year I shopped around for a new home internet provider. The legacy companies encouraged if not required talking to a human being to find out anything about service availability and rates and then be subject to a hard sales pitch. Appointment availability for the install was 2+ weeks out. The new fiber companies had all the info I could want clearly online, appointments available within 2 days, with minimal fuss. The legacy company humans were also often incorrect about their own product, potentially lying to make a sale.

    If they act like a company from the 90s, they aren’t going to capture customers who came into adulthood after that.

    That’s not even touching on the speeds they offer are slower than their competitors for a steeper price.


  • When my brother’s brother-in-law passed, he gave all that to my brother. Both on the high end of tech/self-hosting capabilities. I’ve come to the conclusion much of it wasn’t worth it.

    I’ll be focusing on ensuring access to financial accounts is passed on cleanly. And I’m working on digitizing all remaining physical photo negatives, then planning how to share all digitally with family while still alive. Since I don’t expect any to be interested in maintaining a server after I’m gone, I’m thinking I’ll keep it simple and just give everyone an external hard drive with all the photos. It’s up to them to do what they want with the drive. A copy to each sibling is increases odds it’s survives for a generation.

    I’ll make project notes and plans available to anyone interested, but no hard feelings if no one is interested. And my music and movies can disappear for all I care. My tastes are pretty mainstream so I’m not thinking about archival value.